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Gift giving customs vary from country to country, and the importance
placed on exchanging gifts is even more culturally
specific. Gifts may normally be viewed as thoughtful gestures, generosity,
and appreciation – but without really understanding the culture
they can be interpreted as bribery, or payment for special favors. In Japan for example, gift giving is very important in all aspects
of life: socially, culturally, and politically. Japan is actually the
country where gift making and receiving is more important than anywhere
in the world. Japanese people value politeness and formality. This is
a national characteristic and gift giving has existed for a long time
in our society. People in the Pacific Rim, Middle East, and Latin America are also
keen on gifts, their importance and meaning. Westerners, on
the other hand, appreciate gifts but not to the extent that they make
an art out of gift giving and receiving – they perceive gifts
more as thoughtful gestures rather than generosity and appreciation. On a personal level it is important to know the receiver of the gift.
You know the saying “Don’t bring coal to Newcastle”
(Newcastle is a mining town in England); it would be like bringing chocolate
to a Swiss or beer to a German. Give from the heart and put your personal
touch on each gift, be it through wrapping, adding a flower, or some
other form of personal gift presentation – like the classic diamond
engagement ring placed discretely in the champagne glass of your fiancé
when proposing. In the workplace, gift giving is daunting task. Personal birthdays gifts are cool because everyone participates and the object to be given is discussed and approved by consensus. Holidays are a different matter, and the danger lays in turning the process into popularity contests, especially when making gifts to the boss. Lay low, and go with the mainstream: cute office products are ok – anything else may be interpreted the wrong way. Stay away from flowers and chocolate when making office gifts – reserve that for your Valentine. Read more about gift-baskets and fragrance categories …
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Last Updated: May 13, 2008 | ||
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